If you do not have any real-life health issues but your
sex life is dull or nil then it is possible that you are experiencing one of these 6 scenarios. Scroll down to know whether the one you are facing is on similar lines.
Cuddling next to the iPadIf you both cuddle up with the iPad or phone next to you then it is not going to happen. Your emotions should not be divided when you are together and all sex therapists advise this. Couples end up having lesser sex.
Eating too lateWhen you have late dinners, overeat and have midnight snacks, they make you tired and full and in the end, you just want to sleep. When you eat lighter there is a good chance that you are going to have more energy and have sex in the evening later.
Overload on alcoholAlcohol is another big reason why the sex drive goes down the hill. People often drink to combat stress, but it can backfire, making them tired or grouchy. Alcohol is a depressant. A small amount turns you on but too much can kill it all and make it very difficult to have an orgasm.
Letting the dog sleep in bedThose cute puppy-dog eyes are tough to turn down but you must keep the pet out of the bedroom if possible. Pets are like kids and they can feel the stress between their parents.
Sex is a great tension reliever which is why you must keep the pet away when you both want to do it or have the time to.
SmokingSmoking is bad not just for your lungs but for your sex life as well. As per research, nicotine is linked to decreased sexual arousal response in men and women. In case you or your partner need one more reason to quit, improving your sex life seems like pretty good motivation!
Erotic booksIf you can read books and not mull over them then it is fine but reading erotic novels and having similar expectations from your partner can ruin your sex life. Books can take you anywhere but real life is now and here. Also, every person is different and so is every scenario. Even your character is not the same so having such unreal expectations is the same as comparing porn with your real life.
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