We shall never forget that persons’ behavior is mold throughout their lives and they eventually became part of society. Good or bad they will be there with us, some with a struggling life while others on the silver spoon. Our society is no racial and has a place for all, but the possibility of living in a closed society is a different concept. As we know the only permanent thing is “nothing is permanent” and we are tending to acquire new characteristics, traits, and a different culture altogether.
This same society has the majority of rigid peoples who believe whatever is changing is not for so good reasons. Unfortunately, we may come across to them in a debate, in an office meeting, or in our homes. Angry FUFA Ji was a trend a decade ago, whereas marital sex was a sin, and article 377 was a myth. I grow up in a society where these FUFAjis’ were the center of attraction to marriage, my aunt was under the impression that she is a maid rather housewife, and homosexuality was never explained from Biology. Things change like river flow and the rigid person is just another stone on a seashore. These stones are of no good as they can’t flow with stream and none of us care about them, but what about all the sand which is still beneath these rocks? Time is long gone when a river flow is dangerous, and the seaside is considered safe.
We must realize that everyone in our surroundings will be one day able to suppress others whether an employee or their own child. Look around and you will find people with different temperaments, a distinct nature, and exclusive personalities. They all will grow and rise one day, if they are good they will spread peace otherwise a suiciding student at Kota will never be under pressure if they were parented well. I have seen a mass number of sons and daughters who are still persuading their parental dreams, which are in fact a quarter-century old and may add no value to society. Everyone is not a leader but almost everyone will be deciding a future at least once in their lifetime. The problem arises when the majority of people never come to know that they are making decisions on partial information from their children and they never bothered to ask them. EGO!. Yeah, a few people are good enough at understanding others while a very few will admit it. Hence their decision gives learning to most of us and a nightmare to others.
A conservative family is only conservative with ideology. We still have families suppressing girl child and fathers’ killing dream of an actor. But till what point it is justifiable for anyone to sacrifices their life to fulfill someone’s ego, even if it is their parents’. Our culture preaches us a variety of teaching which are in existence in a completely different form today, like elders and pandits (gentlemen/teacher) should be respected but whether or not to respect an ill-mannered elder, parents are above gods – so it means everyone can be a god mere by producing a child. Now the decision is on us whether or not believe everything blindly which most of our parents did and are extremely rigid to even set us free. It a high time that one should think beyond culture and relationship, all men are equal in Gods’ eyes, and anyone with a child is never guaranteed a green pass to heaven.
An immense sacrifice from a parent toward his child is an example where the existence of God is still in doubt, but it is always a crime to cut a tree for yourself even though you have planted and caressed it long back. One should allow his / her child to take free breadth in air, a Kota class from 6th and white hat junior for a 7-year-old pilot is killing their dreams. You are no preparing them for war because that’s what Hitler did, nor would be for a competition that is yet to start. It’s on us now whether a parent or child, girl or a boy, younger or older, we must take a step and ask questions to ourselves if it is ok to suppress others or sacrificing ourselves in the order to fill their ego or an unfortunate dream which they failed.
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