A few Malaysian need-to-knows

Word to the wise: Saving face is important in Malay culture; try to avoid losing your temper in public.

Noteworthy for: Most Malaysians speak great English, but it's worth learning a few simple phrases, such as 'terima kasih' (thank you) and 'sama-sama' (you're welcome).

Malaysia is a modern, multicultural city with its own unique set of quirks. Keep these tips in mind:


Malaysia may be a multiconfessional country, but as Islam is the most largely practiced religion, it's respectful to dress modestly, covering your knees and shoulders.

A 10 percent government tax and a five percent service tax are usually added to restaurant bills, so tipping is not obligatory. Tour guides appreciate a small gratuity, or at least a warm 'terima kasih'.


Refrain from showing public affection (hugging or kissing). While homosexuality is still technically a crime, Kuala Lumpur has a thriving gay scene.

If offered food or drinks during a personal visit, it's polite to accept. Receive them with your right hand.

If you're female, don't be surprised if a Malay man doesn't offer a handshake greeting, as women typically nod instead. It's perfectly fine to offer your hand, though.


Malaysia has some incredibly strict laws, including some Sharia laws that are applicable to visitors (you can be imprisoned for preaching non-Islamic doctrine, for example). Know where you stand.