Meaning of demure
● Demure means modest, reserved and shy. On social media, the word has slightly strayed from its meaning
● Demure can be a lifestyle choice or a way to present yourself modestly by being mindful of your surroundings
● Social media users are using the word to describe their dressing style, manners, cleaning habits or even personal boundaries
● The word ‘demure’ is also used with other words like ‘mindful, ‘cutesy’ or ‘respectful’
The story behind ‘demure’
● The trend began gaining traction in early August when TikTok influencer Jools Lebron posted a few funny videos telling followers how to be ‘demure, modest and respectful at the workplace’. The video has been viewed over 4 million times
● Though it was Lebron’s videos that popularised the catchphrase, the word had been used previously in 2022 by other content creators as well
● Lebron uses the buzzword in her videos with a pinch of satire and a bit of a joke
People’s reaction
Screengrabs of X users talking about 'Demure'
●Some users are sharing their experiences of being ‘demure’ and ‘mindful’ in public places, hinting at the unrealistic expectations placed on women
● People also believe that ‘demure’ is a quiet response to the ‘brat summer’ trend relating to a woman who likes to be messy, fun and loud, and note how the two trends are polar opposites
● Some users believe that the trend highlights the voice of a trans woman who finds it difficult to fit into the beauty standards set by the mainstream culture
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