Bill Gates as a girl dad: What we’ve learned from his parenting style

Microsoft cofounder and philanthropist Bill Gates has two daughters and a son - Jennifer, Phoebe and Rory. While Bill has often admitted that he wasn’t the easiest child to raise, he has had a different approach to parenting. A lot can be learnt from his parenting style while him raising three children with wife Melinda. He had once spoken about telling his a therapist, “I’m at war with my parents.” And despite his temper, he never saw his father lose his calm. And this sense of parenting has shaped up his approach towards parenting. Bill Gates saw his father's approach towards parenting which was love and logic. In this method, the parent set clear boundaries without any threat, yelling or repeated warnings. He mentioned in an interview that he never saw his father panic or use his emotions to bargain. He called it 'incredibly obstreperous,. This method teaches children empathy and let's them take responsibilities of their own actions and decisions.While his father had a steady approach, his mother Mary Maxwell Gates would get overworked seeing their grades in school. With both parent's different approach towards parenting, nurtured Bill's ambition and supporter his natural instincts. He credited this as a key reason for his business becoming the global giant.As a father, Bill applied and carried his parents' approach in parenting his three kids. He has often spoken about being a feminist dad. He has actively supported his daughters' ambitions, respected their personal choices and helped in building their own identities.While coming from a business giant family creates a lot of pressure and the children being labelled as 'nepo babies', Bill's daughter Phoebe openly addressed how they navigated this situation. Expressing their desires to build their own identities, Bill supported their journey not only financially but also by self involvement. It was famously talked about when he worked in a customer shift service in Phoebe's startup. Bill and his wife Melinda made sure to shield the kids from excessive public attention. They wanted their kids to live their lives as normal citizens. The parenting approach is reflective of a balanced upbringing filled with empathy and quiet support.