Late actor Dharmendra’s most touching parenting lessons: It’s all about love, simplicity and staying grounded

Dharmendra, one of Bollywood’s most respected icons, has always held family close to his heart and nation is mourning his loss as he passed away today, November 24. A father of six, he experienced the challenges of raising children both in and outside the spotlight. His parenting reflections reveal vulnerability, deep love and a desire for his children to live grounded, simple lives. Through emotional quotes, the late actor demonstrated what fatherhood, legacy and real connection truly mean.

Dharmendra often said, “Yeh film industry bahut banawati hai,” reflecting his belief that the glamour world can be artificial and misleading. He wanted his children to grow up grounded, enjoying real experiences rather than star-studded lifestyles. No lavish parties, no industry pressures—just school friends, home-cooked meals, and a simple upbringing. For Dharmendra, true happiness came from family bonds, honesty, and a childhood that nurtured authenticity over showmanship.

Dharmendra proudly shared, “I have never differentiated between my children. I love everyone.” His own father was stricter, a discipline that shaped Dharmendra into the man he became. But he chose a more balanced approach, firm yet affectionate. His parenting emphasized fairness, unity, and equal emotional space for everyone. His message highlighted that despite different marriages and households, every child received the same love, respect, and sense of belonging in the family.

Dharmendra once admitted, “To watch my youngest get married was an overwhelming experience,” expressing heartfelt emotions many parents relate to. Although he loves all his children equally, the youngest often remains the “baby” of the family. Seeing her step into a new life brought joy, nostalgia, and a sense of time passing. His words captured a father’s tender vulnerability, pride mixed with the bittersweet feeling of letting go.

On Koffee With Karan, Dharmendra recorded a message for Sunny and Bobby, saying, “Aap nek bhi hain, achche bhi hain,” expressing deep pride in their character. He acknowledged how they had learned to handle the industry’s ups and downs with dignity. He joked that fathers “bore their children with lectures,” but reminded them it is a parent’s right to guide. His message was loving, humorous, and filled with timeless wisdom.