Women who ‘hate’ men might be the most dateable; here's the unexpected reason

The dating landscape is ever-evolving. While the millennials are still trying to catch up with Gen-Z’s dating styles, including throning, shrekking, nanoship, and future proofing, there is a new and controversial dating theory on the block. The supposed new theory circulating in the dating world suggests that women openly admitting that they ‘hate men’ might actually be the best ones to court!

Yes, that’s right. Haters could be the best daters! Netizens argue that men benefit greatly from dating women who openly express their hate for men.

According to TikTok user James White (@jameslwhitee), women who say they dislike men are the most loyal partners. They can be great lovers and have meaningful relationships. “Okay, so if you’re a guy who can find a girl who hates all men, but! But, but, but likes you? You’re set. You are literally set for life,” the young man explained in a video that has gone viral on the internet.

According to him, a woman with this mindset might reject most men outright; however, she could deeply cherish the one she accepts. He also added that many men misinterpret these women’s take. He added that these women are not universally hostile but rather protective of themselves.

“All these girls who hate all men, they’re gonna find one man that they love, that they want to take care of, that they cherish, that they wanna be super kind to, super sweet, everything like that,’ he added. His theory says that the initial hostility shown by women may not be a rejection of men entirely, but a way to weed out those who do not meet their standards.

Another TikToker ( @tootsietat) shared that women who openly criticise men are actually filtering for partners who embody the phrase “not all men.”

“Yeah, because instead of sitting on some podcast screaming ‘Not all men,’ they’re out here actually doing the ‘not all men,’ right? They’re like active examples of not all men,” she said. Instead of false promises, such women prefer to see actions that prove a man is different from the stereotypes they criticize. They want the actions to be louder than the words.

These theories point to trust in a relationship. The netizens argue that many women who criticize men may be doing so from a place of past disappointment or hurt. This so-called ‘tough exterior’ functions as a shield for them. A guard of sorts that could protect them from any emotional trauma that may occur from falling for the wrong person.