Here are some confessions
Men and women may be wired differently but sex is something we all desire. However, in different circumstances, sex may just be the last thing on a man’s or woman’s mind, at times. Here are some sexually frustrated husbands who anonymously shared their exact feelings and situations with us. If you too can relate to them, feel free to share your comments in the section below.
I sometimes feel like cheating on her
My wife is a very beautiful woman and I used to fantasise a lot about her while we were dating. Little did I know that my wife is not a fan of so much sex or maybe I want to do it all the time. Our libidos simply do not match. I get so frustrated at times that just to have sex I imagine myself cheating on her. I once even cried myself to sleep because I got so tired of masturbating alone.
Sometimes I question myself for having so many kids
We have 3 kids with the youngest being 3 years old. Our sex life came to a standstill after we had the third baby. My wife refuses to have sex because she is so tired all the time. I try to helop her with the kids and the household chores so that by the end of the day when we are together, we can have some good sex. I feel it will be a vent for her frustrations too but she says NO now. All she wants is to sleep when she gets time. It has been so long since that I have started watching porn again. I hide it from her but I think she has an idea. What else can I do? I am a man with needs.
My wife thinks it is abnormal to have a sex drive
We both are in our late 40s and one of our kids has started going to college too. When I feel like having sex, my wife brushes me away saying that it is not normal that I have such a high sex drive at this age. I want to give my peace of mind to all those God-related shows she watches on OTT. She has become so religious and we are so young right now. It is unfair!
My lust has led to losing my wife
I love sex! It is something all of us should do and when you are married to such an attractive woman, I fail to understand what is wrong with that. I want to indulge in different positions, and have sex like our ancestors involved in the making of Kamasutra. I am just 37 and my wife is 6 years younger. After 2 years of our marriage, whenever I want to have sex, she yells at me and inches away on the bed. It is like my lust for her has backfired and I have kind of lost her.
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