How to have a kinky sex life when you’ve just had a baby!

Children bring a lot of happiness into people’s lives. But the one thing new parents can totally forget about is sex! A couple can totally forget about intimacy, sex and passion since taking care of a newborn can consume all their time. It can also be quite a challenging time for new parents and there might be increasing arguments and fights. For all the frustrated couples out there, here are some tips to have a kinky sex life when you have a kid!

It is quite possible that you and your partner are in the bedroom all the time while trying to feed or make your baby fall asleep. So, break the monotony and have sex outside the bedroom. Let it be the kitchen, washroom or even the living room.

Sex may not be very pleasurable, since you’ve just had a baby. So, including sex toys and lubrication would be a great idea. This can make sexual penetration enjoyable without any post-birth pain.

Wear the lingerie that you’ve kept in the back of your cupboard for a long time now. Wear the lingerie and surprise your partner if you have opted for a date night out. This might get back the spark that had been missing between you both for quite some time.

Don’t go trying the most uncomfortable and experimental sex positions. Always opt for sex positions where you and your partner feel comfortable because that should be the priority before anything else.

Restarting your sex life after having a baby can be pretty difficult, let alone doing kinky things. Foreplay can be very sensual, romantic and pleasurable. The simple grabbing and touching can arise feelings of satisfaction and sexual pleasure.

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