Can you give love a second chance?
From being a small screen actor to the big Bollywood screens, Shehnaz Gill has become a household name with her bubbly personality and lovable nature! Her relationship with late actor Sidharth Shukla had caught the headlines back in the day as the couple were all set to get married. But the actress went through a traumatic heartbreak when Sidharth Shukla succumbed to a heart attack in 2021. Shehnaz has been since focusing on building her career. There have been speculations over Shehnaz being in a relationship with Raghav Juyal for quite some time now. However, Shehnaz has denied the rumours upfront.
This leads everyone to wonder, is it possible to find love a second time, especially after facing such trauma from your first relationship? Let’s dwell deeper into this and try to understand how one can possibly find love a second time.
You have to know when you’re ready
Processing grief is a lengthy process. From accepting the loss of a partner to moving on, there’s a lot in between that can totally devastate a person. But if the idea of going on a date with someone repulses you, then acknowledge the fact that you are not ready yet. But if you see a tiny glimmer of excitement at the thought of meeting someone new or getting to know them in an intimate way, then you are already on the path to moving on.
You will compare, a lot
It is quite natural for you to compare your late partner with the one who you may potentially date. There will be a lot of comparisons and there is no need to feel any kind of shame or guilt. This doesn’t necessarily mean you are measuring up your new partner.
Be open to all kinds of opportunities
It is understandable to have the idea of a partner already on your mind. But if you are trying to navigate your personal life from a romantic point of view, you need to be open to all kinds of potential partners. Look forward to meeting people who are similar or different from your previous partner.
Use dating apps at least once
If you are not entirely open to the idea of trying online dating apps, then you should all the more try it out! Even though online dating apps may not be your forte, they can open you to a variety of people which will help you navigate the kinds of people you might meet romantically.
Be persistent and positive
Keep a positive attitude about finding love once again. Yes, there will be bumps and times when you will think about your previous partner, but moving on from the immense heartbreak is the way to go. Don’t go too fast, take your time and go slow. You might need to take your ‘me time’ every now and then to renew your energy and mind. Remember, anything good takes time and effort. Be positive that love will eventually come to you, even if you meet bad people or those who aren’t right for you.
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