Are you dating the right person?
So, you have been dating someone for quite some time and wondering about the road ahead. You both are in love but will you make a happy couple? Will this relationship go the distance, or are you under the illusion of being compatible? And the most common one—can marriage be on cards for you both? Well, if any of these questions have been hovering over your mind, this article is going to help you find an answer. All you need to do is to sit with your partner and ask these six quick-yet-insightful questions. Um, you’re welcome!
Are you both on the same page?
This should be the first and foremost question to ask your partner. While you are dreaming of a rosy future together, are they also willing to take the plunge? Do they treat this relationship as a fling or a serious affair? Do they see marriage as the next step in your relationship? It is a good idea to take things ahead only and only when you both are on the same page emotionally.
What are your religious beliefs?
Well, religion can actually be the foundation of one’s personality and how they view life. Therefore, it is really important to know what are the religious beliefs of your partner—whether they are agonstic, atheist or religious. Next, are they comfortable they are with your religious beliefs?
The most interesting thing you have done recently?
This question reveals what is their idea of having fun, and their answer can help you to understand them better as a person. Your partner might tell you the story of their recent adventurous trip, the last book they read, the place they caught up with their friends, the prank they played on someone, a drunken banter or something that would reveal their side that you never know existed before. Also, would you like to be a part of this activity in future?
What will you do if you receive 50 thousand in your bank account right now?
If you are willing to see a future with them, it is important to get an idea about their spending habits. Simply pop the question what would they do if they receive an amount of fifty thousand in their account? Will they save it? Squander it on a lavish trip? Donate or do something else?
Oh, the ‘bedroom’ question
Your sex life has the potential to make or break your relationship and hence, your sexual compatibility matters. Ask him/her about what sex means to them? It is love making or a mere physical need. What is their sex drive and sexual fantasies? It is a good idea to take the relationship to next level only when you both are comfortable with each other’s fantasies and fetishes.
Your needs and expectations matter!
Stay honest to yourself and think about your expectations from the partner and your relationship. It could be anything from being a working (or staying-at-home) wife, whether you would like to have kids or not, your idea of fidelity, managing finances, expectation from in-laws, sharing the household responsibilities etc. Be clear and have a candid discussion about what all is acceptable to you in a relationship and what all is a big no. Do you see your partner happily embracing you for the person you are?
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