From not opting for IVF and Surrogacy to having only 2-3 months to conceive naturally; Rubina Dilaik gets candid about her pregnancy journey
Rubina Dilaik recently had a candid conversation with Bharti Singh and Haarsh Limbachiyaa, where she opened up about the complications she faced during her pregnancy process, their last try to conceive naturally and more. Here's what the actress shared:
Talks about how it takes a force to raise twins
I feel taking care of one kid is easier, Abhinav and I feel ek hi kiya hota. Mumma is at home, and now they have started crawling, so while one gets a massage, one will run away. Both of them love their water time, humara full cardio ho raha hai. Full weight loss without exercise. Do bacchon ke liye 6 log chahiye.
Initial reaction when they came to know they were having twins
When we came to know we were having twins, Abhinav and I didn't talk to each other for 2 hours. We started calculating how things would happen, we will have to hire 2 nannies, we will have to ask our family members to help us and also keep a cook. For us, even work is important.
Had only 2-3 months to conceive naturally
The doctor had initially scared us so much. Medically, I wasn't fit, I just had 2-3 months left of conceiving naturally. After that, we had to go for IUI or IVF. And 2 months had already passed, so I had to plan it soon if I wanted to conceive naturally.
They had initially gone to freeze embryos
Abhinav and I had gone to freeze the embryos, as we wanted 3 years to plan everything. Both of us are quite practical about things, and we decided to give time to our careers for financial stability and to secure ourselves. We decided to get ourselves checked, and after the tests, we came to know that I have only 3-4 months.
Stressful lifestyle over a decade was the reason
It hit me terribly, and I wondered why I was keeping myself healthy and everything then, why? The doctor mentioned that I had been living a stressful life for the past 10-12 years, which affected the egg results. So, even if I had to freeze my embryos, there would be a procedure.
Didn't want to opt for Surrogacy or IVF
I had heard from my friends how the painful procedure it was and that there is a constant rejection if you don't conceive in IVF. I came back home, and I felt that I didn't know whether I wanted to go through all of that. God forbid if my body gives up, then I wouldn't be able to come to terms with the fact that I would have to opt for surrogacy or lend my egg.
Decided to plan family naturally
I knew Abhinav loved kids, and I knew how much he wanted a family, so I put aside my career plans and decided to try planning for our family. The first three months had rejections and failures. So we took some break from all of it and chose to ignore seeing the tests and feeling dejected. That makes you reconsider everything. And in that month I find myself that I am pregnant.
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