Pankaj Tripathi as a 'modern' parent
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'OMG 2', starring Pankaj Tripathi and Akshay Kumar, addresses the need for our society to normalize and encourage sex education. Considered a 'taboo' or an 'uncomfortable topic' or even 'vulgar' by many -- as the film highlights -- talking about sex, body parts, good touch-bad touch etc., should be normalised to protect our children from falling prey to misconceptions or myths, that have the power to negatively impact their mental health or make them vulnerable to sexual abuse. Knowledge is power, and so should be sex education, to empower our children. The film, directed by Amit Rai, has been awarded an A certificate by the Central Board of Film Certification.
Imparting sex education at home
If the film inspired you too to create a dialogue as a parent, and impart sex education to your children, this guide can be of your help. It is ok to feel a little awkward or uncomfortable as a parent, especially if you haven't talked about sex education before or haven't been taught by your parents or school when you were young. Know that this conversation is important and essential for your child, and falls under your responsibility as a parent.
Awareness about male and female body parts
It is important for your child to be aware of the names of their body parts, including the proper names for private parts, as well as explaining to them why they are private and should not be touched by anyone else. You can teach it through songs, stories, games or activities.
Good touch and bad touch
Explain 'good touch' and 'bad touch' to your kids at an early age. A good touch is a way for people to show they care for and help each other— like a pat on the head, back, or a bear hug.
A bad touch is one that your child doesn't like, hurts them, makes them feel uncomfortable, confused, scared or has anything to do with private parts. Teach your child to say NO to bad touch and always inform you if it ever happens to them.
Safe sex practices
As your child grows up, explain the biological aspects of reproduction, menstruation, and puberty. Discuss safe and responsible sexual behavior, contraception, and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Present factual information, emphasizing the importance of making informed choices and understanding potential risks. Consider using educational resources, books, and age-appropriate videos to supplement your discussions.
Bust myths and answer all their doubts
Bust common myths your child may hear -- such as 'kissing can make you pregnant' or "masturbation is a sin". Also, be open to questions from your child. Children are curious and you must be excelling as a parent if your child asks these 'seemingly awkward' but important questions from you. It is always important to tell the truth and give answers in a way that makes them age-appropriate and understandable for your child.
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