Are you making these mistakes?
Sex is a two way act where both the partners are supposed to be involved. However, many make the mistake of taking the shorter and easier route to climax that they end up with a frustrated partner. Here are some of those mistakes made by men that can easily be rectified and most women would relate to these issues. If you have a sexually, unhappy partner then it is possible that you are making these mistakes.
All is not physical
Sexual dissatisfaction among women even if married is a common issue due to several reasons. One of them is that men presume that it is all physical. But the truth is that it is the lack of emotional intimacy that turns off women. Men too need it but when it comes to sex, all individuals have a different approach to it.
Her needs
Sex is about two people and they should be equally involved. Partners can have different needs when we talka about sex. There are different expectations, frequency levels and even the level of sexual desire can differ. Both have to discuss these things out and it is important to address the elephant in the room. If your partner is dissatisfied then maybe you are not paying attention to what she truly needs.
Following a routine
No one likes a routine when it comes to sex. It is important to try different positions, methods, as sex is actually an art. Spice things up and refresh your sex lives or else your partner may lose interest in you on a physical and eventually an emotional level.
The finish line race
Men, on an average, ejaculate after 5-6 mins of starting sex. Women take longer and they can last 15 mins easily! Women do not necessarily need a marathon, they can take long and they may like it slow too. There is a rhythm that you have to work on.
If she isn’t done, you are not done
Even if you ejaculate, your partner may want more. Getting up right after you are done but your partner isn’t will definitely leave an unsatisfied woman. You could introduce sex toys, stimulation or other ways to make her climax. If you do not tend to her, you are definitely leaving your partner frustrated.
No foreplay
A woman has several points or erogenous zones where you can work and foreplay. By straight away hitting the vagina, you are simply forcing yourself on your partner. It is important to feel the goosebumps on her skin, make her want you more.
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